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No One Is Broken - Jayson Gaddis - 539

Wed, 13 Aug 2025

Jayson explores why no one is truly broken. What should you do when a client feels like they are? Why can’t you get rid of any part of yourself - and why is that a good thing? Jayson explains why every part of you has value and how embracing all of yourself can be a powerful path to healing.

Timestamps:

  • 1:12 - Why no one is broken
  • 8:11 - What to do when a client feels broken
  • 9:16 - You can’t get rid of any part of yourself
  • 11:31 - You need all parts of yourself

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How to Coach Men Effectively - Jayson Gaddis - 538

Tue, 05 Aug 2025

How should you coach men effectively? Jayson unpacks the impact of male social conditioning and what it means for therapy and coaching. What’s different about working with men in couples therapy? How can coaches help men break out of rigid gender roles without making them feel inferior?

Jayson also shares tips for navigating defensiveness and creating safety while challenging growth. Don’t miss this direct and practical episode on supporting men more skillfully.

Timestamps:

  • 1:48 - Male social conditioning
  • 7:30 - Men in couples therapy
  • 10:37 - What to do differently when coaching men
  • 21:42 - Escaping the gender straightjacket
  • 26:05 - When you sense a man getting defensive
  • 26:37 - Don’t make men feel inferior

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How to Get Over Your Anger With Your Parents - Jayson Gaddis - 537

Tue, 29 Jul 2025

Jayson dives into the challenge of getting over anger toward your parents. Did your parents drop the ball in ways that still affect you today? How does your past shape your present relationships? What does it actually look like to move from victim to author? And how do you know when you've truly let resentment go?

Jayson also explores why it’s important not to focus solely on the negative, how growth can happen through adversity, and the personal cost of holding on to anger. Don’t miss this powerful solo episode.


Timestamps:

  • 1:50 - Did your parents drop the ball?
  • 4:45 - Your past impacts your present
  • 8:13 - Moving from victim to author
  • 11:04 - How do you know when you’ve let resentment go
  • 14:53 - Don’t solely focus on negatives
  • 18:03 - Growth through adversity
  • 20:53 - The personal cost of anger and resentment

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Group Work, Healing, and the Role of the Facilitator with Christian Pankhurst

Tue, 22 Jul 2025

Christian Pankhurst joins Jayson to talk about group work. What does “healing” really mean? What do transformative arcs in group therapy look like? Should the facilitator be part of the group? Can group work replace one-on-one therapy? How can you stay well as a healer? How should facilitators deal with projection? Stay tuned until the end to hear Christian and Jayson share their self-care strategies.

Timestamps:

  • 2:22 - Emergent group facilitation
  • 3:48 - Is the facilitator part of the group?
  • 8:48 - Transformative arcs in group therapy
  • 13:37 - What does “healing” mean?
  • 15:53 - Why group work?
  • 25:52 - Group work vs one on one
  • 30:59 - Staying well as a healer
  • 40:09 - Dealing with projection as a facilitator
  • 50:56 - Where to find Christian

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Coaching Someone Whose Partner Isn’t Doing the Work - Jayson Gaddis - 535

Wed, 16 Jul 2025

How should you coach someone whose partner isn’t doing the work? Jayson breaks it down. How should coaches and therapists get their clients to focus on themselves? Should clients leave or stay with an impossible person? Why is it so important for clients to have their feelings validated? How can you help your clients take responsibility for not speaking up? Don’t miss this insightful look at a difficult situation.

Timestamps:

  • 1:18 - Coaching someone whose partner isn’t doing the work
  • 4:47 - Getting clients to focus on themselves
  • 8:47 - Staying with an impossible person
  • 10:35 - Leaving an impossible person
  • 15:00 - You need to have your feelings validated
  • 20:35 - Helping clients feel the sharp edge of the knife
  • 24:00 - Why do clients get defensive about the partner they’re criticizing?
  • 25:00 - Coaching your client to ask their partner to change
  • 31:21 - Helping your clients take responsibility for not speaking up

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